Everyone else has money figured out…but me!!

Have you ever thought: “Everyone else has this money thing figured out… why can’t I?”

It feels like money is easy for other people.

They know how to manage their money.

They understand investing and building wealth.

They make decisions without spiraling into doubt.

Meanwhile, you’re quietly struggling.

You make money, sometimes even a lot of it, but you don’t know what to do with it.

You’re afraid to move it anywhere, in case you make a mistake. You don't know who to trust as a financial professional.

So it either sits untouched… or gets spent.

And deep down, you’re terrified someone will find out how “bad” you are with money.

So you keep your questions hidden.

You keep your shame quiet.

And you silently decide there must be something wrong with you.

But here’s the truth: How could you possibly know how to do money when no one ever taught you?

Money is one of the biggest taboos in our culture.

Most of us grew up in households where money was either whispered about, argued about, or never mentioned at all.

That silence? It’s a sign of inherited shame.

A pattern passed down through generations.

So when you feel confused, stuck, or afraid with money, it’s not because you are "bad with money."

It’s because your nervous system is carrying stories and fears that were never yours to begin with.

The shift happens when you stop making yourself wrong for not knowing.

When you realize: “Of course this feels hard. Look at what I was taught (nothing positive!!). Look at what I inherited.”

From that place of compassion, everything changes.

That’s where healing begins:

• Releasing the shame you’ve been carrying.

• Healing the fear of making mistakes.

• Uncovering generational beliefs and deciding which ones you actually want to keep.

• Learning to relate to money as a tool, not a test of worthiness.

Because when you do, money stops being a source of secret shame… and starts becoming a source of safety, power, and choice.